Many people leave their present relationship because they find themselves still having feelings for their ex. Some find it hard to leave their present relationship because they don’t want to hurt their partner, instead of leaving they decide to cheat with their ex and this is all because they still have feelings for their ex. The truth is nothing can justify the reason why you cheat on your partner, to them if you’re caught cheating it becomes difficult to put their trust in you again. The reason why most people find themselves still having feelings for their ex is because they didn’t clear up their feelings before moving into another relationship. Believe it when you still have your ex somewhere stuck in your mind, when they resurface, you start having a strong feeling to be with them. I always advice people to clear up their feelings for their ex before dating someone else if not a time will come when you will meet your ex and the urge to be will them will start to develop.. After a breakup, don’t rush into a relationship, give yourself at least 2months to get over your ex. Some people use their partner to get over their ex. If your partner later gets to find out you used him/her to get over your ex, they will feel you never loved nor respected it was all for your own selfish reason that you got into a relationship with them and you’re finally leaving them with to options. The first option is for them to leave the relationship but some won’t do that, some will love to pay you back in your own coin by cheating on you which is the second option you’ve given to them. They won’t just cheat on you, everything about them will change, and they’ll start to treat you like you’re shit and so many others.
Don’t ever use someone who loves you to get over your ex, that’s a very wicked act and some people will never forgive you for that and you’ll eventually lose your dignity with them. Instead of using another person to get over your ex, just wait for as long as you want to get your mind off your ex so as to prevent future problems in your relationships to come. Some people leave their present relationship to go back to their ex but they are treated like slaves by that same ex, they become clingy to their ex because they still having feelings for their ex and their ex don’t feel anything for them anymore. If you are in a relationship and you still have an uncontrollable for your ex and your ex feels the same way about you, the best thing to do is leave that relationship than cheating on your partner, they will still respect for that.
Always give yourself time after a breakup to get over your ex and clear your feeling for them before moving into another relationship. Don’t use someone who loves you to get over your ex, it’s unforgivable and heartless of you to do so.